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| Gracias por toda la ayuda amor! |
You watch 1,000 YouTube videos, read 1,000 blogs like this one, talk to people on forums, friends that maybe did it, but nothing will fully prepare you until you are there. I compare it to the gym. It's great to watch YouTube videos or read a book about workouts, diet, etc. But until you go to the gym, you really haven't started. The videos helped, the reading helped, my girlfriend here helped a ton, but until I got here, I hadn't entered the gym yet.
The first two months, flew by quick. I am retired so I thought time would be on my side. Things took a lot longer than I would have liked. Finding an apartment, furnishing it, immigration, and balancing life in the USA. USA is still my financial center of interest, that's probably a whole other article, but since it is, every business day I am doing a little work with accounts there, or on my Airbnb there. The first two months a lot of time was dedicated to finding the right gym, opening a bank account, and learning the neighborhood. I'm happy now to have it down pretty good in month 6. I know some of the locals and laugh a bit when I can show my girlfriend who grew up here a store or cafe she didn't know about. But it definitely took a lot more time than I thought it would. Like many expats my money goes a lot further here than the USA so some of that time flying was being too picky with apartments. I was looking for something fitting of Bruce Wayne but it turns out in a middle class 3rd world country, there aren't too many Wayne Manors in the area. But of course now I am happy with my place. At one point between Airbnb checkout and check in, I was technically homeless. This is where I lightened my load of luggage, left stuff at my girl's place and got to business. All that being said, the apartment hunt was way more complicated than I ever thought it would be.
So was the bank account. I didn’t have an Argentine bank account at the time. Credit cards are widely accepted, which is great—but there’s often a 10% surcharge, and I didn’t want to deal with that forever either. Withdrawing cash can also be a hassle. Argentina has very high ATM fees. I do get reimbursed through Schwab, but that’s not something I want to rely on. And of course, you still need cash for things like tips and small everyday expenses. I have been a customer of Chase Bank for over 20 years. I have been a customer of Galicia bank here for 4 months. I probably spent more time in the Galicia branch here opening an account in the four months, than I spent in Chase in the 20 years. Every thing finance has been a learning curve. But now that I got it down, I'm comfortable... Relatively.
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| Bariloche |
I went back to the USA right when I got my apartment in month 3, I had some work on my rental to do there. So I left for 3 weeks. I told my girlfriend it was as if we go to the movies, we order popcorn, a soda, we take our seats, the coming attractions finish, and as the main movie comes on I say, "Ok, I gotta go!" My life was ready to begin, but work called. But after those three weeks I came back, and have been here since.
These two photos above describe better than I ever could "life abroad". I'll probably say it often in my blog, but my favorite short way to explain it, "Some days you are living the dream, and some days you are at Home Depot or Costco." I love waking up in a different country, speaking a different language every day, immersing myself in a new world from everything I knew! But some days, you are also at Home Depot or Costco, the toilet has something wrong with it, you need to buy gas for the grill, buy chicken, veggies, etc. You go to the gym and workout, you read on your balcony, you play guitar in your jam area... Sometimes life is the same, and always will be. That's in part why it's so important to be happy with your daily routine more than anything else. I don't go to Mendoza wine tastings every weekend, I don't visit Palacio Barolo daily, or snow mobile in Bariloche, I still haven't been to Iguazu falls, it's the day to day life that makes or breaks you.
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| Trelew |
It became pretty clear after my 3rd or 4th trip to immigration a lot of influencer type people who say they are living in a country, probably only came for the duration of a tourist visa stay, that's not to say they lied, especially if they don't have a home base anywhere else, but to actually live long term was a big curve that I think now after month 6 I finally adjusted to. I spoke fluent Spanish before I got here but I got used to the accents finally after 6 months. I grew up taking every train in NYC but had a curve to get used to La Roca and the Subte train here. I drove police and fire trucks lights and sirens to "life and death emergencies" but I'm still getting used to driving here to a corner store, which at times also seems like a "life or death emergency!" But overall I feel like my feet are wet.
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| A bit of daily life |
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| Wine tour, not daily life |
I started waking up when I wanted to, and without an alarm for the first time in my life, 7-8ish (except those damn days at immigration!). I sleep with my phone in an entirely different room. I enjoy my morning coffee at home but sometimes the second coffee down on the corner where the barista makes jokes about the streets we live on. I buy my produce from the vegetable store, my wines from 2 or 3 different places, my chicken always from my friend on the other corner. My gym friends know me as the American guy. I have dinner with my girlfriend and her family 2-4 times a month. It took me a solid 3 months to get used to her brother's accent and fully understand what he was saying, but now I got it down. Hopefully he's not reading this now! Anyway, life has become good. The Malbec flows, eating steak here is cheaper than eating a burger in the USA, we go to the city center once or twice a month for fun or my girlfriends business. We have been traveling a lot in the country. This is one of the biggest things I want to take advantage of while I'm here. Southern Hemisphere travel.

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The places that would have been super far before this are now weekend trips, we just got back from Mendoza. Before that we visited Puerto Madryn to swim with sea lions and see the Southern whales up close and personal. Before that in August we stayed at Llao Llao in Bariloche, one of the most famous resorts in the country. We enjoyed snow in August, hiking, snowmobiles, and sleighs. We are set to go back to Brazil for a concert in March, I want to visit Easter Island in Chile, return to Uruguay for more than a day trip, and of course I am super excited to be going back to Antarctica next month! All of these places were a world away, now most are a 2 hour flight. And living down here with a flexible schedule makes those travel costs even easier. 

All in all, it's been an incredible 6 months. It has been way more complicated than I thought it would be, but alas, if it was easy, everyone would do it, and it just wouldn't be as good. You think every day is going to be a new adventure, and in a way it is... But sometimes that adventure is just Costco or opening a bank account. But hey, it's still been fun in a way. I'm looking forward to more adventures down here and seeing where life in South America brings me. I grew up in a basement in Brooklyn, in a house with 10 people, and never thought I'd travel further than Florida, hell at some points maybe even New Jersey, and now I've traveled to all 7 continents and I am retired living in Argentina... Life is good.

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